- Make a list of your questions
You’ll have a lot of them! What’s more, that list will probably keep growing as you continue your research. Consider writing your list as a note on your mobile phone, so it’s easily accessible and editable. That way you’ll always be able to keep the list updated.
There’s a mountain of information and resources out there. Patient organisations, special interest groups, health authorities, and weight loss clinics are key places to start. If you’re using a large language model like ChatGPT or Bing to search, keep in mind that they’re not always 100% reliable – yet. Always make sure your sources are credible. For example, the European coalition for people living with Obesity (ECPO) is a great resource.
- Talk to other bariatric surgery patients
These folks have been in your shoes, and they know how you feel. Some hospitals and medical centres that specialise in bariatric surgery have their own online patient forums or support groups. Check their websites for such resources.
- Talk to your primary care physician
Your doctor should be able to help you assess the information you find from various sources. If your physician does not know enough about bariatric surgery to be helpful, consider getting a second opinion from someone with more experience in the field.
- Visit bariatric clinic informational meetings – both in real life and online
Weight loss clinics deal with situations like yours every single day. Meetings are typically free and have no strings attached. It’s a great opportunity to hear details from the experts. Often, you’ll have the chance to ask questions, too.
- Reach out to a patient organisation(s)
Find out whether your country has any bariatric/weight loss patient organisations. If so, they are likely to have online resources or meetings that you can sign up for. Since patient organisations tend to be independent, you are likely to get a wide range of unbiased information. ECPO also has links to many country-specific resources.
- Call or write bariatric clinics and ask questions
Don’t hesitate to reach out to the bariatric clinics who are experts in weight loss surgery. They are more than happy to help, and their reputation depends on serving clients like you well – before and after potential surgery.
- Talk to your family and close friends
Even if you don’t always agree with them, it can help you clear your mind, get inspiration, and explore your hopes and concerns. Regardless of whether you eventually decide to pursue bariatric surgery, your family and close friends will be part of your life. And chances are they have your best interests at heart.
When it gets right down to it, you’re the only one who can and should make the decision about pursuing bariatric surgery. Of course, your doctor/surgeon needs to determine whether you are an appropriate candidate. But if you are, you owe it to yourself to be honest about what you think and feel is right for you...
